In this episode, host Cliff Duvernois interviews Dr. Don Steele as they explore his intriguing life journey. From Dr. Steele’s important role in sports to his interactions with top-tier teams like the Seattle Seahawks and the Green Bay Packers. They discuss thought processes and performance.
The discussion delves into the relationship between goal orientations, human behavior and high performance – all under the purview of psychological dynamics. Moreover, the conversation reveals Dr. Steele’s unexpected knack for music and his thoughtful contribution to his community. All these and more make the Podcast-Radio Dr. Don Steele an absorbing discussion, uncovering the fascinating path to enhancing personal and professional success on multiple fronts.
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Dr. Don Steele: But I ended up working
with the Seattle Seahawks, the Green
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:Bay Packers, and teams like that.
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:I never could have gotten there by
being an assistant coach, or coaching
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:in high school, or coaching in college.
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:My chances would have been zero.
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:But teaching about how the thought
processes work, being a neck up coach,
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:That's stuff they're really interested in.
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:And they're not really versed in that.
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:But, it took me to places I never
would have gotten, if I hadn't focused.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Hello, everyone, and
welcome back to Total Michigan, where
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:we interview ordinary Michiganders
doing some pretty extraordinary things.
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:I'm your host, Cliff Duvernois.
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:If you've been listening to the show for
any length of time, one of the things that
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:I absolutely love to do is talk to these
people that seemingly come from nowhere,
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:different socioeconomic backgrounds, and
yet they're going out there and they're
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:achieving their version of success.
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:And I was thrilled to actually come
across somebody in the state of
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:Michigan who not only would be a high
performer himself But has actually
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:worked with world class high performers.
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:And we'll delve into that
when we get into his story.
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:But ladies and gentlemen, please.
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:Welcome to the show today's guest.
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:Dr.
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:Don Steele from the
Performance Learning Center.
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:Don, how are you?
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:Dr. Don Steele: I'm good.
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:Thank you.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Excellent.
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:Why don't you tell us a little bit about
where you're from and where you grew up?
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:Dr. Don Steele: I grew up here in Saginaw.
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:And then left.
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:I was superintendent of schools in
Saginaw, then went to Toledo, Ohio,
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:as superintendent, then on to Seattle.
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:And after Seattle, I
started my own business.
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:I lived in Huntington Beach, California.
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:Then Las Vegas, Nevada, and
then Scottsdale, Arizona.
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:And I just came back
about three years ago.
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:Wolfe, uh, released a book in:that says you can never go home again.
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:Uh, But I did come back home.
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:And I found it to be, And,
it's been really, uh, a good.
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:I met old friends, new friends.
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:And we started doing things in this
area that, I think is a contribution
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:to the community and satisfying to me.
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:So I really, really enjoyed it.
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:I truly believe that, um, if you don't
know where you came from and don't
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:appreciate that, you're never going
to get where you really want to go.
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:So it brought me back,
to my roots, so to speak.
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:Cliff Duvernois: So let's talk a little
bit about your educational background,
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:because you've obviously got a PhD.
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:So talk to us, what'd you
get your bachelor's in?
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:Dr. Don Steele: Bachelor's
is in psychology.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Ok.
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:And your masters?
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:Dr. Don Steele: PhD?
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:And philosophy.
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:Psychology and education
are the two areas.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Now why did you
decide to get into psychology?
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:Dr. Don Steele: You know, uh, long story,
but I got in a fight in high school.
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:Actually, yeah, my freshman year.
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:And broke a guy's teeth.
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:And so I had to either go to juvenile,
because his parents really came after me.
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:Uh, or, uh, I could go to a psychologist.
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:So I went to this psychologist.
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:he told me so many things about myself.
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:I, I thought he had talked to my parents.
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:So when I went home, I said, why'd
you tell them all this stuff, and they
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:said, we don't know who you went to.
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:You know
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:So I thought, you know, I called him
up and I said, who do I have to get
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:in a fight with again to see you?
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:I don't have any money.
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:You know, And he said, no, come on in.
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:So he became kind of a mentor to me.
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:And I thought that's great to know how
the mind works and how people think.
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:What a, what a wonderful
thing to go after.
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:So that's what drove me.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Now during this
time to as you're going into
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:psychology and you've gotten your PhD.
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:So why did you decide to take that
and now go into public education?
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:Dr. Don Steele: Well, I was
teaching, uh, in Saginaw.
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:I'd come off the road and I was teaching.
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:I started out as a
traveling phys ed teacher.
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:And it was simply, when I came off the
road, I had to have something to do.
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:And I was always getting ready to leave.
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:You know, I, I liked teaching.
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:But I was thinking about
doing my own thing.
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:And then they'd give,
they'd give me a promotion.
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:uh, nine years after I started teaching
traveling phys ed, actually seven
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:years, I think, I became superintendent
of schools in Saginaw, which was
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:a surprise to all of my friends,
my parents, and everybody else.
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:You know, being the moral,
intellectual leader of our youth
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:wasn't what they projected for me.
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:iff Duvernois: and, uh, laugh:
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:Dr. Don Steele: So then I, then I
was, after I was superintendent in
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:Saginaw, that went well, and I went
to Toledo, Ohio, and then to Seattle.
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:So I, I followed that path a
lot longer than I intended to.
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:Finally in:to go out on my own.
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:I always tell that I bought a desk
and credenza, set up my own office
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:in my house, took me six months
to make my first sale, and that's
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:when I sold my desk and Credenza.
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:I didn't have any business.
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:So I called the Pacific
Institute, Lou and Diane Tice,
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:had started that, uh, business.
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:And I'd spoken to them quite
often when I was superintendent.
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:I'd go and talk to their staff and stuff.
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:Lou Tice offered me a job.
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:And I said, I really don't
want to work for anybody.
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:I, I want to be in business for myself.
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:But not by myself.
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:So if I can have an office where
you are, I'll market your products
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:or whatever you want me to do.
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:But I would like to have my own business.
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:He said, okay.
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:So I, I did that.
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:And then became vice president of
the Pacific Institute for a period of
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:time and then started my own company.
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:Cliff Duvernois: there's a, there's
so much here we've got to unpack.
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:what is the Pacific Institute?
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:Dr. Don Steele: The Pacific Institute was
started, 50 some years ago by Lou Tice.
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:Uh, It's in the personal
empowerment business.
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:And how thought processes work and stu
it was pretty, pretty basic at that time.
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:Through the years we've
gathered a lot more information.
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:I work with, uh, what's called the
Pacific Institute Community now, which
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:is a spin off started by John McNeil.
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:And including, uh, Denise Mills.
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:And we have about a, over a hundred
companies that are involved with us.
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:But it's a research organization,
a teaching organization, speaking
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:organization, all around the thought
processes of high performance people.
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:How the mind works to affect thought,
you know, your, your behavior,
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:your emotions, uh, your success,
you know, that kind of stuff.
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:So, it's been, it's led us into
working with people all over the
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:world, very, very different domains.
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:I mean, politics and, criminology
and, Microsoft and Ford Motor Company.
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:I mean, big time, clients.
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:and also small entrepreneurial
businesses and individuals who, want
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:counseling for one reason or another.
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:I worked with some of the movie stars
and athletes and people like that.
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:That, Are always trying to learn.
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:I find that the highest performing
people always want to learn more.
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:people that are struggling, are more
reluctant to invest in, education.
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:in psychological education
particularly, about how they think.
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:And it's so important.
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:research recently says 95 percent of
what we do is subconsciously controlled.
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:That we really, the decisions we
make, the actions we take, the
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:emotions we feel, are pretty much
driven by that subconscious picture.
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:We take in information, from our senses,
we associate that with a subconscious
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:picture that we have, our habits,
attitudes, beliefs, and expectations.
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:Then we evaluate, is this moving
us towards something good or bad?
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:And then we decide.
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:That all happens in a millisecond.
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:But it's a little process
that happens very quickly.
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:We all think in exactly the same way.
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:We don't hold the same thoughts.
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:But that's the way we think.
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:Whether it's negative
or positive is up to us.
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:Whether it's good for us or not.
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:So it's true for a high performer.
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:And it's also true for
a person who's addicted.
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:We used to think that the prefrontal
lobe of the cortex controlled
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:our planning and our thinking.
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:And it, it's very important.
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:It distinguishes from chimpanzees
and those related most
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:closely to the human beings.
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:But, it really is our subconscious
that, that controls stuff.
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:So my lifetime has been spent helping
people reframe their subconscious.
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:Change the attitudes, beliefs, attitudes,
expectations that they have to help them
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:move out of the rut they're in or whatever
and, and move forward more effectively.
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:Cliff Duvernois: So just to go back
and draw a parallel what you're
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:talking about here because I love
this topic, and it's something
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:that's near and dear to my heart.
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:Your musician side...
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:And you were talking before
about winning this, this contract
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:to be able to tour the U.
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:S.
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:But even since then, you've actually gone
on to play with world class musicians.
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:Dr. Don Steele: Oh yeah.
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:I did an album behind you.
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:You can see the, the
albums with Willie Nelson.
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:He's 90 years old, still traveling,
playing three, four nights a week.
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:He's a study in how to live, how,
doing what you love to do most
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:of the time gives you longevity.
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:he's had a few health challenges along the
way, but, he's, he's going strong at 90.
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:Tammy Wynette, she's the number two
singer of all time in country music.
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:Did a wonderful album with her.
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:I'd use that to, with Tammy Wynette,
we gave all the money to the
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:Seattle School Scholarship Fund.
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:And it raised tons of money.
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:half a million dollars in,
in a short period of time.
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:They're still giving scholarships.
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:after all these years, in the Seattle
School District, based on that money that
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:was raised and the interest it generates.
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:Then with Willie Nelson, we dedicated
that money to the Catholic Charities
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:Organization for street kids.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Now what I find
interesting about this is that you're
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:you're playing with these world class
performers Now you've gotten yourself
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:involved with a business that helps
people to unlock that potential.
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:Now was that something
that was just by design?
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:Is that something that
you kind of stumbled into?
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:Dr. Don Steele: It's by design.
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:Release, unleashing your potential.
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:It started way back in the institute days.
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:And then I did some work a couple
years with Albert Bandura, Dr.
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:Bandura out of Stanford, who
is the founder of, the father
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:of self efficacy research.
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:Self efficacy being the belief that
you can make good things happen no
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:matter what the circumstance is.
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:And that...
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:It, change comes from me and
not from the outside world.
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:Uh, Outside world can control some things.
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:But most of it is controlled by
the way I think about things.
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:Wonderful guy.
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:He died at 96, about a year ago.
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:But he was very, very helpful with
me in, in teaching others how to
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:build a belief that they can achieve
athletic performance, get through a
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:divorce, handle the death in a family.
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:I'm on the suicide board here in Saginaw.
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:The album I did a couple years ago
was for the Mustard Seed Shelter for
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:Homeless Women and Their Children,
a wonderful organization in Saginaw.
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:Amy Bartelserow does a killer
job of bringing people in.
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:Sister Leona started it.
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:Amy's been, when she was fifteen
or sixteen she was working there
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:as a volunteer and ended up for
the last twenty years running it.
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:Barb Smith from the Suicide Board
here in Saginaw does a great job,
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:their whole organization does, the
board and the people that work in it.
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:So, I found Saginaw to be a community
that's very alive with people
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:that are helping other people.
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:Like music, I want to contribute
to helping other people, like
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:many others are doing already.
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:so it's been, coming home
has been a really, really
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:good, good experience for me.
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:Cliff Duvernois: For our audience,
we're going to take a quick
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:break and thank our sponsors.
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:When we come back, we're going to
dive a lot more into this unlocking
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:potential that we've been discussing.
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:We'll see you after the break.
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:Hello everyone, and welcome back to Total
Michigan, where we interview ordinary
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:people doing extraordinary things.
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:I'm your host, Cliff Duvernois.
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:Today, we're actually dissecting
how ordinary people can do
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:some extraordinary things.
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:And as I said before, if you've listened
to the show for any length of time, I've
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:had guests on here like Terry Duperon as
well as John Hall, people who seemingly
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:had very different backgrounds, come
from very different situations that
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:have achieved a high level of success.
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:And you can definitely listen to
those interviews down in the links
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:in the show notes down below.
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:But why I picked out
those two is because Dr.
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:Steele here has actually written
books about both of these
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:people that are from Michigan.
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:Don, let's take a step back here.
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:Why write books like this?
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:Dr. Don Steele: It was one, I had
no plan on moving back to Saginaw.
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:And I was doing a consulting
contract with the Shepler family.
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:That runs the Schelper
Mackinac Island ferry boats.
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:And it was on succession planning.
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:And that wasn't really my
emphasis in anything I did.
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:But A friend of mine, Pat Doyle, said, he
introduced me to Bill and Chris Schepler
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:and said, you know, they're struggling
with how to manage the dynamics of Bill
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:stepping out and Chris taking over.
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:So I went in, worked with
them for about a year.
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:At the end of the year, I was
so impressed with what they had
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:done 70 some years in business.
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:fighting weather, politics,
competition, and surviving.
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:So it was really a story
of surviving and advancing.
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:At the end I said to Bill Shepler, or
Chris, I can't remember which one, I
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:said, You should write a book about this.
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:And, uh, you know, Chris
said, I can't write the book.
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:But you could.
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:And so, I wrote the book.
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:That brought me back here,
to spend considerable time.
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:The book sold really well,
primarily because they have good
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:traffic going across, uh, every
summer, about 9, 000 people.
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:So that book led to, uh,
Kim Norris called me.
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:And she said, would you like
to write a book about my dad?
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:I read the one about the Schepler family.
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:And I, I'd like to write one about my dad.
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:So I said, who's your dad?
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:And she said, John Hall.
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:I went to school with John.
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:And John's the founder of Glastender.
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:And he was the James Dean of our class.
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:Uh, you know, he wasn't into sports.
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:He wasn't into music.
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:He was really good at art.
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:I didn't know at the time,
but very good at art.
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:And he was always working
on cars and bikes.
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:He had a bicycle with
a steering wheel on it.
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:How do you do that, you know?
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:And he had a car, and
he was sanding a car.
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:And he bought a car when he was like 13.
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:He couldn't drive it up
and down the driveway.
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:I wrote his book.
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:And then another daughter, Tammy Bernier.
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:I was having lunch with her.
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:I'd given a speech to the
Women in Leadership group.
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:And she said, my dad's
sitting right over there.
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:She said he'd make a good story.
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:So that led to Terry Duperon's story.
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:c And then the It Factor book is
the one I'm writing right now.
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:That's one chapter about people.
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:each individual that we think has,
others assess them as having it.
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:Whatever it is.
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:They can sing well.
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:They're really good in
business, or whatever.
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:we, we balance off how,
why are they called it?
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:Is it because of the
positivity of mindset?
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:Is it because of the, engagement
that they have with people?
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:The connectedness?
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:Is it because of
relationships that they have?
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:Is it because of achievement?
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:and then each person we interview that.
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:And we interview people that know them
will rate them in those areas and say,
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:well, this person's really high in
engagement or super in achievement.
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:They've got a signature
achievement that's pretty amazing.
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:Cliff Duvernois: This gives you
almost a front row seat to figure
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:out how these people achieved
what they did in their life.
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:And I say that because, having
them on the show, all of them
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:came from very modest means.
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:Nobody was born with a 10 million
sitting in a checking account
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:for them to just randomly go out.
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:literally starting with nothing.
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:But yet being able to build something.
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:So you were mentioning before about
writing this book about the It Factor.
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:Is that where that came from?
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:Dr. Don Steele: Yeah.
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:It came from there.
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:all of the books that I've written, it
really come from the fact that as human
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:beings, we have a teleological nature.
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:What that means is we're at our best when
we have a clear goal or a clear problem.
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:Now, Terry had this dream, you
know, of becoming a, an inventor.
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:Even though he couldn't read and write.
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:But that dream, that's teleological.
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:He was drawn to that dream.
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:And we have what we call the
reticular activating system.
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:That when you have a goal or a dream,
that allows, it filters out information
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:that's critically important to you,
or of value to you, or, or a threat.
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:simply say you're walking down the
street sidewalk with your wife or
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:whatever, you're oblivious to traffic.
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:But as soon as you turn to go across
the street, That reticular kicks in.
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:Mom and dad sleeping in bed.
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:And, uh, baby coughs or cries.
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:Mom's up taking care of the baby.
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:Why didn't dad get up?
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:Well, he knew she would.
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:You can turn it on or turn it off.
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:the thought process that they share, many
of them are very, very, they're oriented
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:early on to what they really want to do.
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:Cliff Duvernois: So let me ask
you this question because I've
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:had so many people on the show.
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:And so many of them have
achieved their level of success.
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:You were talking before about how
they had a very clear picture in mind.
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:And I'm thinking about two recent
guests that I had on the show, Cathy
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:Howell as well as Deborah Tacoma.
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:Neither one of them had a very
clear image in their mind.
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:Like when, when Cathy was wanting to
start the Wicked Sister, her restaurant.
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:Or when Deborah was creating,
um, the Freedom Wand.
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:They didn't have a clear picture in
their mind of what success would be.
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:But they achieved it anyways.
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:They felt that pull forward.
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:To keep moving and to achieve something.
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:And then when they finally arrived
at their, destination, they're
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:like, wow, this is pretty cool.
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:is there some kind of a correlation
between the amount of success
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:somebody can achieve, in relation to
how clearly they see their goal or
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:outcome, or is that even a factor?
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:Dr. Don Steele: Yeah, I think the
end result drives, you know, you, you
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:talked about the lady who invented
the, um, the Freedom Wand, she said,
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:if this is good for me, my goodness,
she had this picture, this thought.
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:Other people could use this.
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:And it's terrible for me
to just use it by myself.
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:Usually there's a generativic,
something that goes in, in, into play,
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:that this could help other people.
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:that's, that's a living example of once.
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:Once it becomes clear, you know,
like Terry thought about being an
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:entrepreneur, I mean, an inventor
when he was in the third grade.
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:That's not normal.
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:it's, it's, it's more natural to think of
it when you're doing something and all of
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:a sudden you see this opportunity arise.
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:For me, when I was coached by
that psychologist, I mean, I
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:hadn't thought about that at all.
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:But all of a sudden I wanted
to know how people tick.
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:You know, what makes them tick.
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:How can you be, I used it at
the time in sports, mostly.
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:But, my mother always bought the,
uh, world book encyclopedias.
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:there's several book
series that she bought.
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:But they're all, they're
all, you know, Aristotle and
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:Socrates and all these things.
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:So I was reading that stuff when I was
really young about the same time that
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:I was, meeting with a psychologist.
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:So, the seed was planted that,
there's a lot we can know about
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:ourselves and about others.
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:If we study what's out there and
what the scientists are finding
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:and the researchers are finding.
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:I just decided that I wanted to
dedicate my life really to helping
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:others as well as myself um, achieve
higher levels of performance.
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:But I ended up working with the
Seattle Seahawks, the Green Bay
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:Packers, and teams like that.
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:I never could have gotten there by
being an assistant coach, or coaching
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:in high school, or coaching in college.
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:My chances would have been zero.
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:But teaching about how the thought
processes work, being a neck up coach,
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:And that's the way I describe it to them.
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:Kind of the coach of the coaches.
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:That's stuff they're really interested in.
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:And they're not really versed in that.
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:They know the X's and O's, but they
don't know the thought processes.
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:Some do.
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:Pete Carroll's really deep in it.
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:And so are some others now.
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:But, it took me to places I never
would have gotten, if I hadn't focused.
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:And I'm encouraging
others to find something.
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:People who retire, they
flatten out so often.
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:They just flatten out because
they lose their purpose.
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been married 40 years.
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one dies within a year.
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that, purpose in life.
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say, Thank God, the only place where
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:Cliff Duvernois: So before we get
to the graveyard let me ask you
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and I loved it, when you talk about
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are listening to this and they're
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maybe they feel like they're holding
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saying, you know, Why is it every time
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of resistance, or whatever it is?
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:What would be like, one key piece of
advice that you would give people that
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internal performer that everybody has?
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:Dr. Don Steele: Get help.
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:Cliff Duvernois: do you mean, when
you say get help, what does that mean?
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:Dr. Don Steele: Talk to
talk to a psychologist.
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have faith in that you know
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drift or a life of design.
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about shifting from drift to design,
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purpose, teleological versus, uh, drift.
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Stallone, People say, well, then
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not what it's about for me.
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:if a person needs help, like the Mustard
Sheet Shelter, I mean, people like that.
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that are in this profession of
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that allows you to slide
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wealthy have, it's just a different set.
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:Well, they can call here, and,
and we'll set them on a good path.
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:The Pacific Institute community is
a great resource, like when, uh, the
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was put together by the Pacific Institute
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:that program is, uh, designed as a self
paced learning program where you don't
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phone or you can watch it on TV, but
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:there's Follow up, programs where a
group of people will be on every Friday,
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:where a group of people will be on and
they'll talk about concepts like the
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:reticular activating system or comfort
zones or self efficacy and they'll
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:all talk and you'll, you'll probably
have 40, 50 people on the phone call.
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:And they can join those things,
in, in investing in the achieving
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:balanced well being is not a big cost.
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:You know, we made it available
at a very reasonable cost.
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:Businesses pay like 3.
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low as 99 for the whole program.
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:it's a marvelous, it's a well
done, well put together program.
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people were isolated on their own and
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gonna re, we're gonna do a new version.
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move forward pretty quickly because
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love sharing this information and
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just to General Motors and Chrysler.
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to educators, in schools.
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business for a long time.
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teaching people what to think.
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probably be out of this business because
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people, it's brand new information
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Valley State University, I'm
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kind of stuff in almost all cases.
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to it some way, but not most of the time.
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class because the music people, the
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how do you do an interview?
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the person afterwards and offering
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better than our normal thought.
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:We have a negative bias built into us.
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:Uh, if your boss says, I
want to talk to you today.
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:it's why, why, yeah, it's
always what did I do wrong?
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know, I think you're really doing
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just goes and what's the but about?
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that's, we have to control our own minds,
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than be controlled by your thoughts.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Don, thank you so much
for taking time to be on the show today.
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roll on over to TotalMichigan.
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links that he mentioned before.
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talk to another Michigander doing
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